Archive | In the middle

26 July 2010 ~ View Comments

Hard work.

In the middle of the chaos of finishing the third Alex the Fey book, I received this fortune. Wow, talk about the right words at the right time.

Darren Hardy says we have a Microwave mentality. We all expect everything to happen overnight. We’ve forgotten the real key to making things happen – hard work.

Honestly, I needed to see this. I needed the reminder that it will take more time and more hard work to get where I want to go. There’s no express ride to success.

At the same time, Michael Bungay Stanier suggested I take a look at Chris Brogan’s video series on Overnight Success. If you can, follow the link. It’s helpful to see other people bust their asses to get their dream. At least it’s helpful for me.

There’s only one way to get where we’re going – time, hard work, and a belief that we will get there. Let’s get going!

Happy Monday!

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01 July 2010 ~ View Comments

In the middle : Injury

This happens every time. I’m in the middle of the ocean of a goal and I get injured.

Here are the conditions:

1. I’ve been working on a goal for a while – six months or maybe more than a year.

2. I’m not at my goal. I’m not sure my goal is in sight.

3. I’m inpatient and frustrated with myself and my progress.

My response to these condition? Well, hell, what’s my response to everything?

I look for better information and I work harder.

And life’s response to my usual response?

I get injured. Go me!

This year was the year I was going to get back in shape. I’ve been working with Dax Moy since the beginning of the year. I’ve been frustrated because I haven’t lost weight in the way some of his clients have.

Almost at the same moment my frustration peaked, he launched a more intensive program. Our training cranked up a notch.

In my impatience, I was ready to take on his increased intensity.  Result? I’ve strained my right bicep tendon and strained my wrist. Moreover, I’ve activated an old neck-spine injury.

Now, in the middle of the ‘get in shape’ sea, I’m injured. My first response? Work harder (of course). That’s how I sprained my wrist. In an effort to protect my shoulder doing a bajillion pushups, I injured my wrist.

Now, because I’m right handed, I’m off almost everything. No gardening, no painting the house, no home remodel. And no workouts for at least two weeks, probably longer. I’ve even had to switch my mouse to my left hand.

I now have the frustration and impatience of not reaching my goal combined with an injury.

I wish I could say that this was the first time I’ve been in this position. It’s not. In fact, it’s not even the first time I’ve been in this position with this very same issue.

So what’s the lesson here? Being in the middle has more to do with impatience than anything else. Maybe the skill I need to learn is how to deal with my impatience.

Off to learn more and work harder… Some things never change.

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27 May 2010 ~ View Comments

In the middle : Who inspires you?

One thing I do when I get in the middle of a project is listen to inspirational talks on CD (right now Jim Rohn’s The Challenge to Succeed
) while I work out. When I feel that drowning sensation of the middle of the middle (usually in the middle of the day), I turn to inspirational videos. There’s always something awesome at Ted.com. Recently, I’ve found some amazing inspiration in an unlikely place – Good Morning America.

Last week, Good Morning America ran a series of six or seven minute videos on who inspired the correspondents on the show. They are fabulous. Grab a tissue and take a look.

Sam is inspired by his incredible sister Teresa.

Robin is inspired by an amazing program called Urban Prep Academy.

George is inspired by this incredible Head of Homeless programs in Lawrence, Kansas.

Juju Chang is inspired by Gold Medalist and barrier breaking runner Wilma Rudolph.

Bill Weir is inspired by Ed Stafford and his 2 year journey up the Amazon River.

I am inspired by Charles Dickens, the serial fiction master. His journey through life inspires me to risk more, try harder, and write better.

Who inspires you?

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