Archive | Being Human

31 August 2010 ~ View Comments

Re-thinking humankind.

This 10 minute video is intriguing and compelling. The basic premise is that we are not hardwired for self interest and aggression. Rather we are softwired for kindness, compassion, and connection.

And holy crap! Who knew that all 6.5 billion human beings came from one woman and one man??

Seriously. That means that everyone of us – including that kid you hated in elementary school and my crack head neighbors – belong to the same family.

Take the time to watch this. You won’t be sorry.

I’d love to know what you think!

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29 August 2010 ~ View Comments

Unconscious Mutterings : Week 396

There’s a nip of fall in the air. It surprises me, but fall is definitely coming in this direction.

As always, I’m grateful for the consistency of our Unconscious Mutterings. I hope you will take the time to lighten your unconscious and start the week fresh. How do you play? Easy. Simply answer these word prompts (created by LunaNina) in the comment section. See a word, write what’s on your mind. Simply. You’ll be amazed at what come up. I’m always fascinated at how unique and similar we are.

Here are your prompts:

  1. Bangs ::
  2. Diaper ::
  3. Coffee table ::
  4. Cops ::
  5. Matches ::
  6. 250 ::
  7. Hurricane ::
  8. Bad ::
  9. Confirmation ::
  10. Fiber ::

Here are my responses:

  1. Bangs :: Hair salon on Alameda
  2. Diaper :: s stink up 100 ft around outdoor trashcan
  3. Coffee table :: books
  4. Cops :: pudgy Denver Cops
  5. Matches :: burn
  6. 250 :: degree = slow roasted turkey
  7. Hurricane :: ‘s suck
  8. Bad :: Karma isn’t what you think
  9. Confirmation :: hurts
  10. Fiber :: arts (love)

Happy Sunday!

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23 August 2010 ~ View Comments

Laugh

“The most wasted of all days is one without laughter.”
~e.e. cummings

Happy Monday!

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22 August 2010 ~ View Comments

Unconscious Mutterings : Week 395

I’m posting today from my new walking station. I set up a treadmill so I can try walking and working. You see, the Mayo Clinic did a study where people walked and worked with little work interruption. It was so successful that the participants wouldn’t give up their treadmills when the study was over. We rigged a treadmill to work. And we’ll see. If I can improve my health and edit/write? Sounds great to me!

With all these changes, it’s nice some things stay the same. Like our unconscious mutterings. I love it when you play too.  To play, simply answer these word prompts (created by Luna Nina) in the comment section. Playing relieves your unconscious! Try it!

Here are your word prompts:

  1. Leads ::
  2. Concierge ::
  3. Thousand ::
  4. Engines ::
  5. Argument ::
  6. 2006 ::
  7. Knot ::
  8. Fuck ::
  9. Handsome ::
  10. Ridge ::

My responses:

  1. Leads :: to  mayhem
  2. Concierge :: fancy dinner reservations
  3. Thousand :: s of eyes
  4. Engines :: steam
  5. Argument :: loud
  6. 2006 :: Colorado Trail
  7. Knot :: Tied the
  8. Fuck :: a doodle do
  9. Handsome :: gesture
  10. Ridge :: overlook

Happy Sunday!!

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15 August 2010 ~ View Comments

Unconscious Mutterings : Week 394

Ok, I love these mutterings. That’s all.

I love that you play. Each one of you makes my day by answering these word prompts.

Nothing brings me more joy than seeing the line of mutterings.

Thank you for playing.

How do you play? Easy! Just answer the word prompts (created by the lovely Elizabeth known as Pea at LunaNina) in the comment section. Disqus allows you to comment on others. I will be alone to chat with you as well! Just play – have fun.

Here are your word prompts:
  1. Rhythm ::
  2. Baby ::
  3. Sanctimonious ::
  4. I like ::
  5. Constipated ::
  6. Sleep late ::
  7. Over easy ::
  8. Erratic ::
  9. Umbrella ::
  10. You don’t ::

Here are my responses:

  1. Rhythm :: of my life
  2. Baby :: baby baby steps
  3. Sanctimonious :: bitch
  4. I like :: mutterings! :)
  5. Constipated :: creativity
  6. Sleep late :: never
  7. Over easy :: eggs – bleck
  8. Erratic :: , flakey people make me nuts
  9. Umbrella :: share
  10. You don’t :: have to

Happy Sunday! :) Leave your link in the comment if you’d like me to link to you here!

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13 August 2010 ~ View Comments

Why aren’t kids barefoot anymore?

When I was a kid, I could hardly wait to get out of my shoes every summer. I would get one pair of huge new shoes at the beginning of the school year. By the end of the year came around, the shoes were pretty broken down and small.

No matter! It was barefoot season.

The very first thing I would do is try to get my feet ready for a season of hot pavement and cement.  I did this by painfully walking across the gravel in my parents front yard. After a few days, my callouses were building and my feet were ready. Any moment I wasn’t in summer school or church, I was barefoot.

And why not? It was summer!

When I grew older, and started working, I was able to buy my own shoes. I wore anything I could slip on or take off at a moments notice. Clogs were handy. Even dress shoes worked. Seriously. Shoes were camouflage, something I wore when someone was around but discarded the moment they left. This continued through college and my first jobs.

I’ve been barefoot almost everywhere. Even if I wore shoes, I was just as likely to slip them off to let my feet breathe.

I never wore shoes until I moved to Colorado. Outside of athletic socks, I never owned a pair of socks until I moved to Colorado.

Recently, I was wandering down our sidewalk with Rose, our dog, when the neighbor’s eight year old said the universal Colorado shoe call:

“Where are your shoes?”

“In the closet.” Without thinking, I gave the response I give to my husband, father-in-law and now this eight year old kid.

Then it hit me. This is a eight year old kid. It’s summer. Why was he wearing shoes?? What could possibly be wrong with him? I must have gawked because he looked a little puzzled.

“No really,” he said. “Why aren’t you wearing shoes?”

“I love the way the cement feels on my feet,” I said. “Why are you wearing shoes?”

He looked at me as if he’d never considered the idea. He looked down at his feet then back at me.

“Try it,” I said and wandered into our house.

It gives me great joy to tell you that I’ve seen him barefoot ever since then.  Barefoot riding his bike. Barefoot wandering down the pavement. Barefoot on the grass. You name it, the kid’s caught the bug.

But the entire experience gave me pause.

Why aren’t kids barefoot anymore?

I have a lot of other thoughts about this, but rather than complicate the issue, I put this question out to the world.

Why aren’t kids barefoot anymore?

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08 August 2010 ~ View Comments

Unconscious Mutterings : Week 393

This photo is the shining glory of our accomplishments for the last two weeks – a new sewer drain. It’s tapped into the still functioning old sewer drain but fixed the massive leaks. This sewer has been broken the entire time we’ve lived here and quite possibly for decades. It was fixed last night. I did go out this morning, cup of decaf in hand, to make sure it was still draining. It is. Yes, my mind is in the sewer.

Luckily, I can refresh my unconscious with my favorite game, Unconscious Mutterings. How does is work? Simply write whatever comes to mind after reading these word prompts (created by the lovely Pea at Luna Nina). If you’d like to play, and I’d love it if you did, please leave your answers in the comments section. Feel free to take a look at what other’s have written. Comment if you’d like.  It’s that easy – and very fun.

Here are your word prompts:

  1. Coma ::
  2. Aristotle ::
  3. Pink eye ::
  4. Expensive ::
  5. Dancer ::
  6. Lipstick ::
  7. Buffer ::
  8. Stilettos ::
  9. Booming ::
  10. Rap ::

Here are my answers:

  1. Coma :: Food
  2. Aristotle :: was a bugger for the bottle (Philospher’s song)
  3. Pink eye :: sucks
  4. Expensive :: everything
  5. Dancer :: s frame
  6. Lipstick :: Vintage Rose
  7. Buffer :: than me?
  8. Stilettos :: 6 inch
  9. Booming :: voice
  10. Rap :: ping at the door

Happy Sunday!

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06 August 2010 ~ Comments Off

5 things that caught my eye this week

Having sent Who I am, the third Fey book, and sent it off to the proof readers, I have been cruising around the web. Here’s a few things that caught my eye.

1. As a follow up to last weeks post about the disgusting cowardice of the Republican party, Representative Andrew Weiner discusses why he was so angry. There’s not much we can do about this bill now. There feels like there’s not much we can do about the grid lock in Congress over reasonable issues. The Republican’s are holding until election day in the hopes of changing Congress. We can only hope they are not satisfied.

2. This is an interesting article in the Financial Times about the Crisis of the Middle Class. This is not a new story. The War on the Middle Class
was published in 2006. What’s interesting about this article is how it relates issues like the Tea Party to the crisis of the Middle Class. I posted this link to Twitter and was surprised to hear from a number of people overseas. They were surprised at this look at America’s middle class.

3. This is a gorgeous gallery of photos. “Taking old World War II photos, Russian photographer Sergey Larenkov carefully photoshops them over more recent shots to make the past come alive. Not only do we get to experience places like Berlin, Prague, and Vienna in ways we could have never imagined, more importantly, we are able to appreciate our shared history in a whole new and unbelievably meaningful way,” says Alice. Here’s my favorite.

4. While we’re on photos, this was posted by Drew Carey on Twitter. In celebration of the Federal Court Judge Vaughn Walker’s decision to overturn California’s ban on gay marriage, I share:

5. I can’t find a link to this. I was sent this Haiti update from SOS-Children’s Villages. (If you haven’t looked into SOS-Children’s Villages, they are an amazing charity.) SOS Children’s Villages had been in Haiti a long time prior to the earthquake. When the news media looked for legitimate resources, they went to SOS Children’s Villages. Here is their report about Haiti five months later:

HAITI:  FIVE MONTHS AFTER THE EARTHQUAKE

June, 2010

On January 13, 2010, a 7.0 magnitude earthquake hit Haiti and destroyed thousands of buildings and hundreds of thousands more lives.  Our SOS Village of Santo, near Port-au-Prince, was spared.  There, over 200 orphans were already living prior to the earthquake, safely and well taken care of in SOS houses in SOS families.  Good construction made all the difference and left all our facilities standing.  The SOS Village subsequently has become a haven for other children who have lost their parents.  We currently have custody of over 500 children for whom we still search for family members; we have 800 students in our primary and secondary schools.

The Phases of Haiti Relief

What follows below is a description of the phases of SOS relief efforts.  Budgets will be refined over time as fundraising continues and needs change.

Phase I:  Basic survival, water and sanitation, food and medical treatment (January – March, 2010)

Phase II: Mid-term shelter, protection and care (March, 2010 – present)

Phase III:  Assistance in Haiti reconstruction

  • Phase I:  Basic survival (COMPLETE)

In the initial weeks following the earthquake, tons of food and medical supplies, as well as hundreds of tents, were distributed by SOS in collaboration with other international nongovernmental organizations (INGOS) who were part of the Cluster on Child Protection.  We also took in hundreds more children without parental care and started work immediately on family reunification.

At that time the Haitian government gave SOS temporary custody of the 33 children who were being transferred illegally out of Haiti.  That incident positioned SOS in the middle of an international news story. Coverage on the Today Show, MSNBC, Anderson Cooper, Larry King, The Wall Street Journal, The New York Times, and The Washington Post enabled SOS to address a key question:  what exactly happens to children who lose their parents in a natural disaster?  As experts in raising children without parental care, SOS was able to answer:  children are first registered and receive safe shelter.  Following that, efforts start to reunify families.  When reunification is not possible, more long-term options must be considered.

  • Phase II:  Protection and temporary care (IN PROGRESS)

We are now in the second phase of Haiti relief and coming to terms with the fact that our SOS Village has swelled to over 800 children who need love, food, clothing,  trauma and grief counseling, schooling and a sense of hope.  Conditions are overcrowded for meals, play and sleeping.  Tents on the ground predictably will create challenging conditions as the rainy season—and hurricane season—descend.  Therefore, SOS is now bringing to Haiti innovative polypropylene shelters that “pop up” quickly into sturdy, dry, lightweight houses that can last 3-5 years and withstand winds of well over 100mph.

By mid-June, each of these 100 shelters will house up to eight people in 242 square-foot individual family units.  Another 16 small shelters will be used as latrines and showers.  Many will likely be installed in the community as well as in the SOS Village.  SOS is also feeding an estimated 10,000 people a day through dozens of food distribution centers in the Port-au-Prince area.

SOS Children’s Vilages is working with major INGOs on child protection issues, including UNICEF, Save the Children, and World Vision.  We are also pursuing a collaboration with Partners In Health and its sister associations, Zanmi Lasante and Zanmi Beni.

  • Phase III:  Shelter and reconstruction

SOS intends to build new facilities when critical needs assessments have been completed.  This likely means  new schools, community centers, and perhaps the construction of a new village.

Each other…all they have left.


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03 August 2010 ~ View Comments

What you can do about the problems we face

Every major problem we have in the US can be traced back to Congresses dependence on lobbyists and special interests.

Global warming? check. (Whole sale support for the industrial food complex.)

BP Oil Spill? check. (The rig was built by Dick Cheney’s company Haliburtan after all.)

War in Iraq? check.

War in Afghanistan? check.

Lack of jobs? check.

Economy? check.

What can we do? We can support Citizen Funded Elections. (What is that? Click any of the words and find out!) It’s an idea that even the Organizing for America is starting to talk about. (Of course, Organizing for America has not yet taken up the ‘commit to not take special interest money’ piece of this. But it’s a move in the right direction.)

In this 18 minute video, Lawrence Lessig says it best:

The video is well worth the time. It gives some history and decades of thought. Check it out!

If you want something fast and easy to do, take the pledge to not donate to any candidate who opposes Fair Elections.

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01 August 2010 ~ View Comments

Unconscious Mutterings : Week 391

Last week, we harvested 126 pounds of fresh, warm honey. Now my thoughts are: honey, honey, honey, honey, honey. lol! We’re pretty excited that the bees have done so well this year. We are moving into the tricky time of the year. August and September is when CCD starts. This year, we’ll have the chance to stay on top of it.

You can see why these unconscious mutterings are so important this week. Anything to break up the chant of honey in my head. I bet you have a thing or two rattling around your brain. Do join me!

How do you play? Easy. Simply answer these word prompts, created by the lovely and talented Pea at LunaNina, in the comment section. Read the word, answer what comes to mind. It’s a fabulous way to clear out the old unconscious. Check out what other people have to say. If you feel so moved, feel free to leave them a comment. Please do play!

Here are the word prompts:

  1. Sexting ::
  2. Corrected ::
  3. Rewind ::
  4. Heard ::
  5. Amazon ::
  6. Running ::
  7. Illegal ::
  8. Tracked ::
  9. Generate ::
  10. Towel ::

Here are my answers:

  1. Sexting :: is stupid
  2. Corrected :: in red pencil
  3. Rewind :: my life
  4. Heard :: careless whispers
  5. Amazon :: Jeff Bezos
  6. Running :: for fun
  7. Illegal :: War on Drugs
  8. Tracked :: back to roots
  9. Generate :: empathy; generate pain
  10. Towel :: Dog (Rose likes to play pull with towels)

Happy Sunday!

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